Once again, the holiday season is upon us! While there are many exciting and joyous times ahead, sometimes the stress of the season can get to us and cloud the purpose behind some of these festivities. Let’s take Thanksgiving, for example. Many of us get anxious about purchasing groceries, cleaning our homes in preparation for guests, and then cooking what is often the largest meal of the year! What if we tried to take a moment to slow down and appreciate this holiday for what it is intended to be – a day to be around our loved ones and to think about what we are grateful for.
Being thankful is not just about being polite. There are some real benefits to it that are backed up by science! Spending just five minutes each day focusing on what you are grateful for can improve your physical and emotional health more than 10%. This impact is the same as what you would feel if your income doubled. Additionally, those that focus on being thankful often have better social lives. Showing gratitude in our day to day lives makes us kinder and more appreciative which tends to have a positive effect on how others perceive us.
Thankfulness can also make us more optimistic and less materialistic. Sometimes during this time of year, we can get caught up in the value of objects, but if you make it a point to practice gratitude in your daily life, you may find that you focus more on things like family, friends, and hobbies instead of material objects. This can help improve your general outlook on your own life and circumstances.
With so many benefits associated with being thankful, what better time a year to start practicing? Consider keeping a journal for the rest of the year and each day write a couple of lines of things you are grateful for. Take your growing positivity and share it with others! Consider working to get your neighborhood together for a Thanksgiving celebration. You could do a potluck to spend time together or perhaps invite neighbors that might be alone during the holidays over to share in your celebrations.
This is also a good time to help the community. Your association could consider hosting a food drive or get a group of volunteers together to help out at a local shelter or soup kitchen. This is something that people of all ages can participate in and it can help remind you of all you have to be grateful for!
The holidays only come around once a year and can fly by in a blur of activity. Try to take a moment to close your laptop, put down your cell phone, and truly enjoy the special things that happen this time of year and most of all, enjoy spending extra time with family, friends, and neighbors. That is something to truly be thankful for!